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Originally Posted by X-men
thanks for all the advise, however, my ger's hse is quite far fro city bout 1 hr ride. Frankly speaking,i dunno whether i pity n love her more beco i saw wat enviroment she grow up or tat is a trick to make me fall deeper. Frens around me tot i kena kong-tao by her beco with my income,(i also consider above average looking lah) i can easily get a local ger n Y i still insist to stick with her..$ got con still won hurt tat much cos can earn back but if she con my feeling then i really dunno wat to do..maybe juz take a gamble this time,put her on a test n dun be soft0hearted anymore....Anyway thks to all bros who share their woes n listen to me..
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Bro, u may try to test out her true feeling... but it really takes time. Not only vn gal, even local sg gal also need time to test the true feeling. Not to say that this will be a long distance relationship.. it will be more difficult to maintain the trust. i.e alot of sg couple went different country to further study and break off from their relationship
I can see that you are also in the same state as me. Furthermore I know my g/f in 1 of the pub in sg. She was caught and deported back, I waited 1/2 year to go vn to meet her... from there i try to test her and slowly bulid up the trust and relationship. Truthfully, i got doubts, alot of doubts initially. Sometimes i also think why i want her that much... i don't know if i also kana kong-tao. I had a failed relationship with local gal and i do not like local gal attitude towards life... so i go for my vn g/f.
If you think it is really worth it, go ahead and try out the relationship. But you need to have lots of time and energy.