[xilverzap]

Guys

I just want to say that as you read through these postings, we have been making some noises about how bad or why are thai girls like this or that.

I have something to let us all think a little. Let's turn this table around. These girls, be they previous FLs, decent ones or whatever, that 1 girl that eventually became your GF or Wife... What do they want in life? What are their priorities? Why are they not thinking in the same wave length as you? What is "wrong"?

We can say its culture differences. Yes. So, their culture is wrong and ours is right?? Is there such a thing?? A totally wrong culture??

I think sometimes we need to see it from their angle in order to understand them better for the betterment of ourselves.. (wa cheem..hehe)

I think they are the product of our doings. We treat them well in the first place. We take care of them inthe first place. We happy gum guan give them all we have IN THE FIRST PLACE.

So in all fairness, ITS OUR FAULT TOO. I know many may not agree. But give it a thought.

I love them thai ladies. They are so wonderfully crafted, so loving (if they wanna be). And as time go along with you being their only man in their life. I believe 1 day, you will be able to get to the top of their list of priorities. It takes time.

There are bad relationships and there are wonderful ones. Perhaps we should see the good things they bring when marrying a thai girl instead of making noise and cry why why why we are the victims. Arent they victims too when they cant get what they want?

Yes there are scammers and cheaters... they are in every other countries as well. Just look at PRCs thread. So nationality is no different. I guess when these thai girls, when they fall in love with a foreign man, they are also gambling that this man is a good man and able to provide for her and her closest and most important in their lives. Their family have been with them since BIRTH. You are with them when you just MET.

So I feel we should be a little fair to them.

Just my thoughts.

xilver