Marriage is a gamble for all races, religion and nationality. All those communications, understanding, trust will change along the way. If these are so effective, there is no word called "divorce" or "breakup".
Not Vietnamese gers are "loose", sometimes men have to look at themselves first.
Human always blame others first before looking at themselves. We always think we are right.
I have to disagree that majority of Vietnamese gers are "bad". We tends to remember, magnified the "bad" Vietnamese gers. The small micro "good" they did, we always forget. Furthermore most of the people here associate more with the WL than normal decent office gers. I have met a lot of decent office gers in Vietnam, their behaviour, lifestyle and thinking are so different from WL.
Vietnamese gers have a lot of good points. An example I remember n still feel strong in my heart, just a small gesture, my ba xa always lay my slippers in front of me when I get out of my bed in the morning.
