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Originally Posted by hitman69
Ya, this is how I feel too. I feel that marriage is not easy, need a lot of commitment n sacrifice. In my life, I had twice nearly got into marriage, first was with a singapore gal n the second was a vietnamese. Both I had let them down. I really had this phobia of getting married. I can't image how am I going to face a same woman n live with her for the rest of my life. I cannot image I was been tied up!! I believe Passion will fade off one day, n by then there is nothing left.
如果感情变淡，当初她的忧点都会变成缺点，你会样样都看她不顺眼。甚至觉得她很碍眼，恨不得她立刻从你生命 中消失!!从前她一个电话，本来开车路程需要半个钟头，你可以"飘移"在十五分赶到(比周洁伦的AE86还 历害!!!)。现在就连她已经在你家楼下了，你都会懒得下楼去接她!!从前跟她做爱两三次后，隔天还可以直 接去上班而且还很精神。但如果你不再爱她了，就连她主动过来抱你想和你做爱，你都会觉得她很贱!!人都是会 变的，感情也在变。
Nothing is forever in this world. That's why we need law n paper to maintain a marriage. Of course there are a lot of successful marriage, but at least to me is impossible, because I am a selfish n irresponsible guy. I dun know whether my mentality will change in the furture, but my current mindset is to remain single for the rest of my life.
I am not trying to be negative or what. but just that bro singviet happened to ask, so i just answer. However this is my own mentality. I believe that marriage can be very happiness, but not to me. I alway envy those who r getting married n have a happy family, but not to me. My path is difference from others, I choose freedom.
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Bro Hitman, i admire you for your understanding of your own character and ideas. there are many guys around in society that cannot accept the responsibilities that come with marriage. Marriage is not a game, it requires sacrifice and responsibility. If one cannot give up the freedom that one has when one is single, then better remain single. There are far too many divorces in society nowadays and too many children coming from single parents.
Have you ever wondered why are there so many ang moh marriage counsellors? The western countries registered the highest divorce rates and why are these ang moh marriage counsellors still coming to asia to teach asians about marriage? hehehhe
