[papillon30]

Originally Posted by hitman69

Ya, this is how I feel too. I feel that marriage is not easy, need a lot of commitment n sacrifice. In my life, I had twice nearly got into marriage, first was with a singapore gal n the second was a vietnamese. Both I had let them down. I really had this phobia of getting married. I can't image how am I going to face a same woman n live with her for the rest of my life. I cannot image I was been tied up!! I believe Passion will fade off one day, n by then there is nothing left.

如果感情变淡，当初她的忧点都会变成缺点，你会样样都看她不顺眼。甚至觉得她很碍眼，恨不得她立刻从你生命 中消失!!从前她一个电话，本来开车路程需要半个钟头，你可以"飘移"在十五分赶到(比周洁伦的AE86还 历害!!!)。现在就连她已经在你家楼下了，你都会懒得下楼去接她!!从前跟她做爱两三次后，隔天还可以直 接去上班而且还很精神。但如果你不再爱她了，就连她主动过来抱你想和你做爱，你都会觉得她很贱!!人都是会 变的，感情也在变。

Nothing is forever in this world. That's why we need law n paper to maintain a marriage. Of course there are a lot of successful marriage, but at least to me is impossible, because I am a selfish n irresponsible guy. I dun know whether my mentality will change in the furture, but my current mindset is to remain single for the rest of my life.

I am not trying to be negative or what. but just that bro singviet happened to ask, so i just answer. However this is my own mentality. I believe that marriage can be very happiness, but not to me. I alway envy those who r getting married n have a happy family, but not to me. My path is difference from others, I choose freedom.

Life is about making choices. The most important thing is to be happy.