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Me also sending around $200 sing every month but by inter bank transaction which the exchange rate is getting lesser sing dollars for me, from $207 initial to $187 inclusive of Bank Charges, that is a $20 per month which is $240 per annum.

Anyone can tell me how to change my wife thinking from her family to her husband and son, otherwise there would be Hell to pay for me, I've paid for her Brother's Wedding, and Even months later, her Brother's Hospital for giving birth, her sister's son education for two years already, and lot & lots more things which my initial monthly send back was not only $200 per month but double, whereas at that point of time, she is not pregnant yet. So not so much commitment, but most important is I'm just earning not more than $2,000 per month at that time.

Though the monthly allowance is lesser, but i think i have given a lot already, but it is never enough, and very few months, confirm got something would happens. Then the money from my pocket would be gone, which i calculated in total for two years, if i'd save up, i think i can change my Honda Civic to a Old BMW without a loan at all.. Though now is earning much much more than before, but yet money is still not enough. 1 person income for dunno how many people's mouth.

So regret getting married so early, and my son is already 5 months old and I'm not even 28 yet.. So sad, still got a lot time things haven't really enjoy before..