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Re: Hanoi
Cont'd posting on behalf of a friend...
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Part 2
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My wife was extremely caring...the problem is..I dun speak viet..and she dun speak english...so whenever we are together...I have Vdict on my laptop and I can 'talk' to her via an online translator programme.
I finished work on friday evening about 8pm...and was totally shacked out...having been working very hard from wednesday...
reached my hotel at about 12am and was extremely tired and lo and behold...she was at the lobby waiting!! I was so pai sey because I forgot that I was supposed to meet her and I had the phone on silent the whole night..
Invited her to go to the room and as we were climbing the stairs she was hitting me and was on the verge of crying...having waited a few hours for me.
Went into the room...gave her some SOP TLCs...and then went to put water in the bathtub...was badly in need of a hot hot soak..
Went into bathtub to lie down for a while and fell asleep enjoying the hot water...she was outside twiddling with my lappy.
it must have been about 10 mins when I felt a pair of hands on my body...opened my eyes and realised that she was washing me...from head to toe...super kam dong...sg gals will never do that to us...after I was washed...she asked me to stand up...rinsed me...and patted me dry.
She didn't allow me to lie down...instead..pointed to the laptop...and wanted me to talk to her.
I told her I will be going home the next day early in the morning...and she should take care of herself etc etc...and she was all teary and sobbing....gave the the usual TLCs...and then I started to pack my bag..
I have this habit of just dumping everything in my bag..and she slapped my hands...poured everything out...and repacked for me...folding everything nicely..
damn...I was falling in love..
we didn't fuck that night...just held her in my arms...and fell asleep...sent her out of the hotel by 7 in the morning...she was obviously tired and coughing...so I told her to go see a doc etc etc....gave her USD50...
Few things to nite...bro deptrai gave me some tips on paying her...
1) she is not a WL...she's a friend of bro deptrai....so they would probably feel insulted if we paid them..so I had to fold whatever I wanted to give her into a small piece and then put it into her pocket...she knew I was putting it in..but didnt know how much... we gotta be sensitive
2) They have to be taught that we are not theirs...so..sometimes when they call..we do not answer the phone if we are busy...this will teach them that when we busy we will not answer.
3) the further they came from...the more submissive and less materialistic they will be.
4) Treat them nice...win their trust and they will follow you.
I paid her 2 x for 3-4 nights...and all the time she didn't mention about payment...I suppose if I wanted to I could have paid her by bringing her shopping.
Thanks to Deptrai for bringing me around hanoi when I was there...and for buying me the various meals when I was there. I will repay you when I next meet you in sg.
Now I'm back in singapore...but I left a piece of my heart in hanoi...if we guys are not seasoned chiongsters and not prepared...we will fall in love and never able to get out of it.
Beware when you are in vietnam..the gals there are very different from the gals here...
Till then...I'll be back!
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May the force be with you my dear friend....
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