[SingViet]

If you allow them to buy most things on your credit, then the next thing they can ask for is your ATM card. Its good to dote on yr gf or ba xa, but there's a limit to equating LOVE to MONEY totally. When i was staying in Saigon last time, my wife used to ask me to buy a lot of things for her family. Brother wants 4 sets of clothes, wants pocket money, mother wants 6 bottles of fish sauce etc etc.. damm knn, the list never ends. Then i became more calculative, i told my wife that there shouldn't be any more other demands besides the monthly money that we give to her parents. It took some time for my wife and her family to get used to it, but after some time, they also bo bian.