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Originally Posted by OceanEleven
It all started with love and hence the marriage, but then in this “first come, first serve, fast come, fast go” society, love seems to be a much desire lust and of faltering value.  |
Well said bro.
However, in my case it's started with Lust, then love...
I've this thai "gf" which when I first visited was thinking purely as a sex trip. The fact that I was invited to lodge over at her place means added excitment and $ savings - too good a deal to miss. Little did I know she was quite serious to be my GF and one thing cums after another, before I know it she's wanting me as a husband material after 2 years+ of long distance relationship.
As a swinging single who holds the belief that "if I can't be faithful, marriage is not for me" I ofcoz tried to siam all inklings towards such an outcome. My usual exit route which is to declare my swinging lifestyle did not work on her (works mostly for PRCs). She became more possessive and the next thing I know she'll willing to do ANYTHING for me as long as I don't leave her
Ya...she's willing even if we go w/o a legal marriage but have a family together. I do find her very special among all such relationships, me quite a seasoned swinger. Maybe that's the thing about Thai ger I like.
Thinking a bit for my future now, if remain as bachelor to enjoy the lifestyle also dunno how long it'll last. Settling down by giving up the forest for a tree is not something a selfish bastard like me will take. Coverting to a muslim and get 4 wives will not address my concern for those paper contracts. Lastly, seeking life [good]partner
s who can accept me for who I am seems to be viable now.
Any bros leading such a life now? hehe...