Had a chance to chit-chat on some random topics I've picked up from this thread with my tai-yai GF, who now plans to move to maesai for good.
On the topic of giving sinsoot (spell?) she says it's really only for the "rich" in thailand to practise; her mom wouldn't care as long as she's happy with the man she like, also maybe her dad passed away oredi.
On marriage and babies, her views quite shock me; her grandparents at home heard rumours that she's pregnant in BKK and are actually VERY happy for her; coz they all know she love kids. I ask why they neber question how cum she's not even married?!?
Irregardless of the fact that I've no intention of marrying her, yet (for personal and legal issues), she's still leaning towards the notion of making babies with me w/o any formalites; we even chatted about the issues around the kids not having ideal nationalities, etc - in which case she was quick to quote a few of her "unmarried" friend's example where the babies get thai nationalities even though they are tai-yai but holding some kind of restricted maesai thai IC.
Being in a semi-shock state, I just listened on while she happily yak away non-stop on these examples, but as far as I can tell, it seems it's quite a "norm" where she cum from.
I don't know how else to "reject" her...
Of coz, what I'm experiencing above could not be the "average" perspective from thai (or thai decend) ger; her situation is not typical and her family is not depending on her for food. Just sharing what I got on this topic so far
BTW, whether it's paid companionship or sponsorship, she is not getting a lot from me... hint: I mentioned earlier that a min of 20K/mth sounds too much for me oredi (Ya, fuking stingy me
). In her mind I'm a poor guy always harping on how to use up my money.