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Originally Posted by KangTuo
Seems that she complicate the immigration issues by faking extension.
1-3 years is your guess. Any outcome on the number of years being banned?
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No idea on outcome as case not close yet. will only know once cpib submit to AG chamber and after they make the necessary recommendations
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Originally Posted by KangTuo
3 years is a long wait and you will need alot of effort to maintain the relation. You have to ask yourself whether are you serious about this relationship?
You will not know what she is doing in VN. You have to be able to visit her few times a year, communicate with her, brainwash her. You will have to be able to tolerate what she is doing in VN and her request for money... etc. At the end, you will need to gamble to see if she can come back sg.
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i fully understand your point. i already brainwash her i not much money liao. so money request will be kept to a minimum.
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Originally Posted by KangTuo
Marrying her 1st is a bad choice. I dunno much about marrying in vn, but i think that there is no such thing as 'paper work' for prove. even have, also bo-pa-ke. Even worst if just go through a traditional marriage in VN with just her family aknowledgement. It means you are the official ATM for the family members.
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i told her i need to reconsider. now she tell me she want to die...
also tell her i not ATM to her family liao. we can only help abit.
because i think whatever you give them, they will spend all and ask for more. so no point giving more
they have no concept about financial planning at all. trying to drill that into her head now
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Originally Posted by KangTuo
I don't know if its true either. My gf also tells me that her friend was caught when working in JC. but got married and stayed in SG. I meet this lady once a month to remit $ to vn for my bx.
My gf was also banned for 3 years. I went through alot of emotional battle during the early stage. I am only 1/2 way there. 1 year 3 mths to go.  |
i hear alot of stories about this. maybe some bros can verify. but i guess base on case by case basis
some are lucky some are not
Bro i wish you luck too. i am at your early stage now. very emotional straining not knowing what will happen in the future for both of us
but i too kind hearted liao... i guess someone else might already kick her down the drain liao. dunno is i stupid or she lucky.
but what i believe is, if given a opportunity to lead a normal life, "work and family" they will be wonderful wives. ( i think mine is) haha