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Old 26-06-2008, 05:46 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Oi gioi oi. Guess why I am posting at 4am in the middle of the night!

It all started when I receive a txt message - "Sorry can not go to BKK and Sillypore with you now" - few minutes later "I am crying now".

Can not go? I am alarmed, so I ask what happened:
"My father is sick. I have to visit him. But I can not"
Aha! the usual sick father. I try to call her. She doesn't answer. Keeps sending txt messages. I gets worse: "I am very sad to ask you but I need money to buy tonic for my father". Oh no, I think, I better dump her now, but I want to say it face to face, so we agree to meet for dinner. She's quite busy as she has an exam tomorrow.

As soon as I see her, I am spellbound again. Her eyes...and I am suddenly in doubt if I want to dump her. So I ask for details. She tells her father had a car accident (I never heard that one before). I say I want to visit him, and to my surprise she agrees. I ask for more details, and the story actually sounds credible.

She also assures me we can go to BKK later, after she has visited her father...(so it's not that her parents didn't want her to go with me, as I had suspected).

I am still annoyed about the money thing though. And I give her a lecture, I tell her I have dumped every girl which asked me for money so far. She explains how sad she is to ask me...I actually believe her (am I gullible). Well I keep looking at her and decide not to dump her yet. But I ignore the money thing. I go away, claiming I have an important business meeting.

She sends me a message when she is going to bed, 11 pm. 5 minutes later new message - no electricity in Cau Giay. We exchange a few messages. I start to tease her. I had never kissed her in real life before (I basically just met her) - but I start to "kiss" her by sms. Different body parts...

At some point I drop the bomb - Anh DepTrais killer line:

Quote:
Em kg tot, chi muon lam anh dau chim thoi, kg fai lam anh dau tim!
she answers: I think that u say wrong VietNamese. I hope that.

a few minutes later: "Because my home is power off now.so I want to go outside.I am hot"

She's an english student, so I tease her about the "I am hot"...and give her some compliments.

new message: "Thankyou very much.do u want to pick me up to your house now?..."

Wow. At first I think she is kidding. When I am sure she's serious, I quickly wash my face, and run to my car while I put on a shirt.

Tay Ho to Cau Giay in 10 minutes...average speed somewhere just below 100km/h...If there was cong an on the street, I probably killed them.

In the car, she says the just wants to drive for an hour, then go to her house to sleep. I drive towards my house, and suggest she better sleeps in my guest room since she has an important exam tomorrow.

At home, I show her the guest room. Where I conveniently forgot to switch on the A/C. Then I show her my bedroom, which is nice and cold. I was never in doubt we would sleep in the same room - con gai viet are usually terrified of sleeping alone. The game goes on: she suggests she can sleep on the floor. No, I say, I can sleep on the floor. On second though - my bed is king size, so you will not disturb me there. At this point, I was more than happy enough to have her in my bed. I knew she would come back anyway, so I decided I did not want to sleep with her now. I did not think about this then , but that mindset - "I do not want to sleep with you now" - attracts women like nothing else.

Sure enough, 10 minutes later, while I'm trying to sleep: "I can not sleep". "I do not feel well". "Can you massage me".

Ok I massage her head. We are both fully clothed. After a while she says she's feeling better. I ask her to turn around, so that I can massage her neck. I massage her slowly, and kiss her neck. I touch her arms. Still fully clothed. Suddenly she takes off her blouse. Things slowly progress. The amazing thing is - she is taking the initiative! The "I don't want to sleep with you now" attitude works wonders.

I had some of the best hours of my life. With a model-type dream girl. In the night before her exam...

After, we shower together. I scrub her back. She's no longer shy now. I asked her what happened, why she was so "hot". "I don't know" she says "maybe I was crazy today".

I don't know what happened to me either. Affected by hormones, I will probably go with her to buy "medicine" for her father, and visit him...whatever...it is definitely worth it.

So I am a happy man now...and I started to call her Em Yêu this night
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