[spasol]

they say men go to stripclubs looking for sex and to prostitutes looking for love. i am one of the 'sadfux' whose been there (BmD girl, long time ago.. ouch). bad self image, lonelyness, lack of confidence. you cant accept she would choose this work and so she MUST have terrible reasons to have to do it. so you want to save her etc. get over it. there's lots of trouble and pain in the world and the choice to become a pro is not near top of the list. for this girl at least its a choice (sure for some others maybe not). and encouaraging sadfux is good for business. the good news is you will get over it, all the faster thanks to the good advice and support here. read that confidence book - no idea if there's anything good in it but it will at least get a new focus for your life. good luck.