Most of us learn from mistakes. The lesson will be harder if the person is cheated of a sum of money. I don't deny that the feeling of someone new loving you is good, the feeling gets even better after you get to bang her a few times. But do exercise some self control. These WL work on this good feeling that we Singaporean man get easily. I travel frequently and often have the opportunities to fall into such `feeling trap', but i always remind myself that i do not want to be cheated. Mind over body bros, especially over the sensitive part of your body