[maxrex]

Hi Hanoi-Kid,

Thanks for your wishes. It is not necessary for the guys to always initiate the divorce. Some women even ask for that. It depends on the severity of their marriage crisis. You can say that it is not easy for many divorced women to re-marry because a lot of Vietnamese men prefer a virgin wife. It's a known fact that most Vietnamese guys like to drink beer. Some guys beat their wives while others look for lovers. But not all are that bad. I have a couple of Vietnamese guy friends and they take care of their wives well. My wife lived in North Vietnam for first 20 years of her life. After that, she came to study and had a decent job in Saigon for 7 years. Most Vietnamese women are very loyal when it comes to love. It does not matter if the girl is from the South or the North. It all comes down to her personality and how suitable both of you are. Good luck to you for finding love.

Originally Posted by Hanoi-Kid

Hi Max,

glad to hear you are doing well and all the best,,,and seems getting a North Viet gal is a better possibility,,,but just a few questions...if Vn gals are quite the jealous type and divorce are increasing,,,who initiates the divorce ? the guys or gals? and if its the gals,,,wont divorce be a stigma to them? i mean its harder for a divorce gal to re-marry than a divorce guy right? And north viet gals are still quite traditional so they more tolerant but sometimes i see the typical Vn guy also like to play around and drink and gamble,,,but there are guys who worked hard but play hard also,,so i do find typical Vn guy like to play around,,,

this is just a comment,,,any other bros care to share?