[Globaltrotter]

Hi Big Sexy

Need help ... I've been caught by my wife for having an affaire. She wants a divorce under the grounds of adultery. She wants maintence fee for her and the children of S$4K a month + the house that we live in. She want to throw me out of the house tonight

We been married for more than 10 years got 3 kids (10 years, 4years and 3years) and live in a private property. I've admitted my mistake and willing to change but she is not accepting it and insist on a divorce. She got some pictures of me and a girl behaving intimately in public places (holding hands, hugging and kissing).

Following are my questions
1) base on the picture can she divorce base on the grounds of adultery
2) Can she demand so much $4K/mth+house. She is working also and both of us command abt S$6K each. I've never given her money on the family because both of us are financially self sufficient. Beside the property which we pay half each for the installment the rest of the house hold expenses are quite relax where we will pay whenever who is free.
3) I need a lawyer ... can PM me a capable lawyer. What do you think the lawyer will be will above cases ...

I am really in deep shit ... deep deep shit