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Originally Posted by BigDickMan
Hi All Bros,
This is my very 1st post here.
Right now i am going with a Vn Gal whom i met at a Pub, we have been together for almost 3 months. She is always angry with me for buying things for her, telling me not to waste money. When her mother need her to remit money back to Vietnam, she did not ask a single cent from me even when shes earning ard 60 to 90 bucks a day or sometimes none. She isnt pretty at all compared to her other friends but its the chemistry that draws us together. Quarrels are sometimes abit here n there, but we would be back on good terms in a few days time. When i made known to her that im not comfortable with customers smsing or calling her when im out with her, she respected my decision and knows what to do. There was once when we had a huge quarrel as she accepted request from customers to drink and ends up with very bad headache and i told her that im so upset that she doesnt listen to my advice as im concern with her; and very dissapointed that i wanted to end my life(it was to test her). She was wailing n sobbing, held on to me for almost 2 hours without letting go.She has since stopped drinking as she told me recently she always does what i tell her to. It was after this incident that i come to realize how much she really love and care for me. Well, i heard stories from my friends all these gals coming to work in Singapore cannot be trusted; seems that this theory doesn't necessary apply to all. Her parents know that she is with me and are very eager to see me and keep asking her if im flying over to Vietnam. I'll be flying to Vietnam on the 25th to meet her parents and i am also very keen to see them. i have read thru this thread and there are many different situations that happened to our bros here, so what wise advice would our more experienced bros can offer me.
Thanks and regards  |
Welcome to the world of vietnam vadoo...
1) If you are prepared to whatever is to going to happen at the later stage, you can continue your relationship with her.
2) If one day she is not longer working in pub and having good income, will you be able to support her, her family and her relative? (rest assure that if she is not able to support her family, she will ask money from you.)
3) If she is in vn and you are in sg, will you be able to belief what she is doing in vn. (she may work in the same line in vn but never tell you)
4) Ask yourself if she is the one your wanted for life? 3 mths with so much quarrel. How much quarrel will there be in a lifetime? (You have quarrel with her now becoz you don't like what she is doing now and you don't trust her. Even if she stops her work in this line, you will still have quarrel becoz of $)
5) How many trips to vn you planned in a year? How many more times she intend to come sg to work in pub?
6) You know her 3 mths and her parents wanna see you. They can't wait any longer for a carrot to arrive. (I only see my girlfriend parents in their hometown twice within these 2 1/2 years)