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Originally Posted by xiaobtss
hi bros i'm new here , been visiting both jazz and mask 51 recently..
got a major problem recently know a girl work at mask very nice to me and went there call her a few times and we went out once. she cared about my personal life and always talking on the phone with me about my problems, recently she was sick and always crying (can hear try to cover up act nothing happen) so i gei kiang go ask what happen ? she didnt wanna tell me at 1st after 2 days keep on pester her she told me .. her sister going back viet on thurs 30/10/08 morning, and she had not enough money to send back to viet to her parents so she feel very sad and down... i ask again u lack how much .. she said $800...
i dunno say i fell for her or what ... jus treat her as a frend should i lend her some money ? her bro lives in sg and she not leaving til next year april09
can i like take her passport as exchange jus in case she dun return ?
very puzzled pls help
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U must be a newbie, what u are experiencing is the start of a turmoil and big headache relationship problem with them. In their vocabulary, there is no such word as lend, they only have 'take'. Once you start to give in the first time, it will become a habit for them to ask and they will take for granted that you must give. The amt will start from 100bucks and as time goes on ballooning it to thousands. If you don give they will lose their temper and show their true colour. Dont ask me how I know!
I am not saying that all of them are suckers like the PRC, unforunately alot of them are force into this situation. It is extremely rare to find one that is really concern about you without talking about money.
Think many many times before you part with your hard earned cash especially with bad times coming round the corner