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Originally Posted by hjy_19
NOW MY QUESTION 4 EVERYONE??
at 1st thought everything will be very simple just pay their debt then marry,who know now lot of problem i can think of,
1st need send $ 4 her 2 brother study in ho chi minh $500 every mth,
2nd need settle her mother debt for their house around $9k,
3rd if arrange her come back need perpare $ again 4 her to buy ticket back vietnam
4th if after rom can stay 4 3 or 6 mth, after tat she went back there stay 4 a mth then can come back also need $ 4 her expense
5th now she run out of $ again due to she settle debt 4 her brother n her tooth surgney although i pass few hundred to her be4 im come back.
WAT TO DO EVERYWHERE NEED $ $ $
Should i still continue rom with her?
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My view is that if you chose love over money but all this issues should not be a problem.. But then again, if these persists, then mayb next when you guys get married already, quarrels over money will be inevitable.. She
MAY come up with more money issues then you expect..
like bro jack say, do as you deem right.. mayb after marriage, you are able to convince with your love and sincerity that her vietnam family is not everything afterall.. In future, you and your baby will be her everything? I learnt this after reading thru this thread with advices from the seniors
.. so marry liao chop chop shoot in.. and have beby
Regards,
vlover