Well, for me i have passed on all responsibilty of sending money back to my wife already!
This was after she started working and earning money. Our agreement was that i will pay for all the expenses of our family in SG...such as groceries, daughter sch fees, any medical bills, insurance...etc etc....
She will own time own target control sending money back to VN based on her assessments of their needs. I think this new year she sent back $1,500!!!

But all her money la..cos she say for the past 4-6 months never send money liao so one time send back for the TET. Also she takes care of her own shopping expenses!! haha...I must say my wife really know how to save money!! i definitely lose out to her in this aspect!!
So do all your wives and girlfriends save money better than you??