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From someone who PM me
Hi just need some advice after reading some threads from u, i believe u have a viet girlfriend and about to settle down soon , so thats why ask u.
i happen to venture into little vietnam during one of my bonking adventures. So one day decide to go joo chiat geylang area pubs with friends. Sometimes just rubba the girls and go home liao. Manage to get a few viet girls numbers initially, and started to go out with a few after bonking them. But just going out with them for fun only. Only lately i met up one new girl i am serious with.. went out a few times, so in the end as u know la become bf and gf. But i sometimes find abit hard to understand her behaviour.. at times she like me to fetch her home from the pubs, but most of the time she prohibit me to go to the pub to find her. Now i realise whenever i sms her during work time , no replies , like complete bo chup. Then we meet up like long lost lover, anh yeu em yeu here and there. Recently we also talk abt money cos i mention i can take care of her if she dont work, she actually ask me how much i want to give her a month. Sounds so direct and shocking to me. Is that normal??? Is her behaviour abit strange also??? Come to think of it, I havent fuck her yet also. For most of the guys who married viet girls from the pubs, is it common they pay and fuck the girl in the hotel first before later stages becoming bf and gf eventually? Enlighten me
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Cheong too much and bonk many gals but sometimes you will find someone you had some feeling with.... this i understand. Seasoned cheongster sometimes also kana love potion.
If you had been cheoning viet scene, you should know that becoming bf and gf with the viet gal is very easy. Fetch her out few time, be her chuffer and treat her few meals, she will say she like you liao.
You say you are serious with her, makes me worry. You got to stand back and observe her. You also need to think if you can accept her for who she is and what she had done before. Else you will be hurt big time.
1) She prohibit you from going to the pub she work becoz she dun want you to see how she work. You may be hurt if you see and she may not be able to concentrate.
2) at times she want you to fetch her, so sometime she do not want you to come right? it means 2 possibility. She got customer ask her out after work or she dun want to tired you.
3) no replies when sms during work time. your work time or her work time? If it is your work time, she is probably sleeping after a tiring night. If it is her work time, she may be busy entertaining customer on the sofa or bed.
4) you are trying to burn a hole in your own pocket by saying that you can take care of her. Talk about anything with the viet gal is okay but not about money issue. As what all other bro with viet wife have been saying "we are poor son-in-law" Taking care of a viet gal means taking care of her family, her relative, her good friends... (Read this thread and you will know more)
5) She ask you how much, so did you commit an amount? She already hit her target/goal. You will be ONE of the few who give her monthly allowance.
6) what is normal? To me, it is normal to ask a person how much he/she can give if that person say wanna feed me and give me $. Nothing is strange... It the STANDARD SOP for the viet gal working in pub.
7) pay and fcuk first or become gf/bf than fcuk is not important for a true relationship.
Lastly, you say you bonk most of the gal 1st than bring them out so you are only having fun with them. What i deduce from your PM is that it is becoz you have not fcuk her, that is why you got alot queries. You are also playing a 'courtship' game with her. So as to stop all these queries, do you know what you must do?...
Bring her to hotel
... or just stop seeing her and move on to have fun with other gals.
Any bro would like to provide your thinking and enlighten this guy?