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Originally Posted by slaughter
bro how to get those contacts who are willing to do this? and how much will it cost? any lobang?  |
Hmm, bro you really wanna do this? My own personal opinion is that its not very good....
From my understanding of your postings so far I hve a limited opinion but i feel you should use this as a last resort or if you sense or have found out something fishy about her..
First, has she done anything or said anything that cause you suspicion? If yes, then its definitely worth a check on her.
My opinion is that since you've mentioned that she is not a Wl, it puts her on a better platform with which to start a relationship. Nevertheless, like what other bros have mentioned earlier, you need to get to know her better. My advice is to get to know her better via your own efforts and not thru a third party.
I dunno really how to put it but i feel that once you have get to know someone for a period of time, you tend to be able to tell if she is lying or being evasive about things, when you talk. You dun really have to get a PI.
If she really did hide something from you and its found out, then that really justifies your decision and you dun really care if she knows about it (you getting someone to spy on her).
However, if it turns out that she is innocent and she has not done anything behind your back, AND SHE FINDS OUT ABOUT IT!!!
Then i would think that she will end the relationship with you without so much as giving you a chance to explain...Vietnamese gals' pride are quite high! so if you have managed to damage it, i dun see how you will be able to repair it, without a mammoth effort.
So it will be prudent to ask yourself if the situation between you and her now, at this point in time, really justifies the engaging of a PI. If smell something fishy and you'll getting married soon, then by all means, go ahead.
But if its just your own insecurity at work, due to the fact that both of you are apart for a long time, and you dun feel comfortable and she haven done or said anything to cause suspicion, and you'll in no rush to get married, then i think its better to know her better PERSONALLY.
Hope my thoughts helps and sorry if it doesn't!
