[aakumu]

Hi bro,
I was giving advices to a bro on PM and thought this could be good to share with everyone.

I’ve been coming to Jakarta for work assignments for 12+ years now, and I’ve seen it all. My advice is to get yourself a proper hooker from Blok M or Mangga Besar or wherever have your fun, pay and leave. Fuck ‘em hard….get your money’s worth. There’s no need for you to get messed-up in this psycho-drama shit of their complicated sad-story lives. They are not interested in you as they "pretend" to be because the bottom line here is cash. At the end of the day they are all prostitutes no matter what their game is or how much they say they love you. Because most bar girl relationships (GFE’s if you wanna call it) average about 1-3 months from what I’ve seen.



I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve met who told me how he thought she was “the one”, how he thought she loved him, and was thinking of getting married, blah, blah, etc. Only to find after a couple of months she cut him loose and moved onto another dude (with a bigger wallet). There’s no need for you have your heart broken with these girls because every dick is their boyfriend, and they are always looking for a dude with a bigger bank account.



Don’t fall prey to these women. They make you feel like gods, but they actually think of you as shit, a source of cruel fun, and a cash cow for them (and possibly their family). Just hop around different women, and make the best out of it. What do you wanna do with the same same chick? Imagine them to be your girlfriend? Don't fall prey to these women. Just keep it simple, and pay and leave!

Hope this could help.

My humble two cents.