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Originally Posted by raverboy
I agree that men should be responsible and not treat women as sex objects.
However, with regards to your story, my 0.02 cents: The bf bought her a house and paid her monthly expenses for 5 years.
Imagine your boss telling you he'll take care of your mortgage and you can go on a 5-year paid leave. Please. Example: A young newlywed VN couple living in HCMC (dual income, good jobs at established companies, say around 20 million VND/month combined income - this is definitely part of a minority btw) How long do they have to save in order to afford a house in the city? You can buy a modest one for about 1 billion VND. Even assuming the couple can put away 10 million VND/month it will take 8.5 years!!
Therefore I apologize, but the girl in your story doesnt deserve anyone's pity - her loyalty/faithfulness/fidelity for 5 years has been adequately remunerated. Just my humble opinion.
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So now if this gal gets involved with another man, is it too much for her to expect her new bf to be able to pay for her monthly expenses?...
Also, do you expect this gal to be faithful now that she had suffered a blow by being dumped by her last bf...being faithful to one bf had brought her a lifetime pain and agony...now she faces a problem with cash to pay for monthly expenses...
Yes, she has a house fully paid for and worth some money but money isn't everything because this gal had been a good gf and baxa and provided his bf every needs without complain...in the end, she lost 5 years of her life...
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