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Old 07-03-2009, 07:07 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by joob View Post
Oh I don't mean she getting pregnant by other guys. I meant by me. We are like trying to save up now and would like to get married at the end of the year. She has her family problems, so, she will settle it herself. As for her job, well, she always uses protection. I do believe her. Of course it never feel good for me whenever I know she goes out with that guy, but it's her job.

Anyway, ask you guys, if a working gal say she loves you, but still wants you to give her money after every sex session, would you still believe her? Anyway, it's not me. Just asking around.
bro, if you really want to settle down with her, you should ask her to quit her trade and support her. Talk to her about her family problem and how much support you can give each month. If she has to settle her own family financial problem now, then even when she gets married, she has to continue to work to settle her family problems.

The reasons why singaporeans look down on vietnamese are plentiful, and one of it is the inability of singaporean man to support their vietnamese spouse and their spouse have to continue to work as WL to support herself. Vietnamese ladies need support from their foreign husbands, if they need to continue to work as WL even after going `steady' with their foreign guy, then the probability of this relationship breaking down is very very high.

Just my 2000 dong worth ....