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Old 07-03-2009, 12:09 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[QUOTE=KangTuo;3536503]I also admire for your open mindedness to let people whack your girlfriend / wife-to-be.

Sorry if I am blunt. You never feel good because the guy can provide her with $$$. You cannot. I would say that her family problem is $$$. Even if you marry her at the end of this year but you still cannot provide the $$$ to her family need, she will still work. Maybe eventually she go with the '$$$' guy.

How can you be 100% sure she uses protection? $$$ works wonders.
Issit only this guy give $$$ and whack her hole? or her hole kana whack by many other guys per night?
The world is small, so is sillypore. Have you thought of what happen if she got to know and slept with some relative of yours in the pub.

Try not to cheat yourself... THINK CAREFULLY



A working lady say 'i love you' to all her customers.
Asking $ after every sex session? I only know PROSTITUTE do that...



Truely, I would like to know how you feel when your girlfriend / wife-to-be goes out working? What is your thought? QUOTE]

Hey bro Kangtuo,

Thanks for your kind words. I truely appreciate what you are telling me. It never felt good to know that she has to go out with customers at night. Never felt good. Everytime the other guy called, i have to keep quiet. But then, she always put him on speaker and makes me listen to what the guy has to say and it's really boring. Everytime the guy sms her, she makes me help her to reply. This is indeed very weird.

That is why I have decided to talk to her about it. To marry her is easy, but then, to support her is not going to be that easy. I have since taken up giving tuition to ramp up my earnings. Hopefully I can earn 1K more per month from now.

I tried to finish the relationship with her once but she cried so much that my heart went soft again. I've not given her alot of money (around $3000), and she had seen my parents already. We always spend the night at my place now, cutting down on the expensive overnight hotel trips. Hopefully she can take what I'm going to tell her, cause the last time we had a conversation like that, it caused her alot of stress. So much that she grinds her teeth at night when she sleeps.

I can forget her past and her present job disturbs me. Been causing me alot of stress too. She's not perfect, but she is indeed good to me. Thanks for reading!