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Hey bro Kangtuo,
Thanks for your kind words. I truely appreciate what you are telling me. It never felt good to know that she has to go out with customers at night. Never felt good. Everytime the other guy called, i have to keep quiet. But then, she always put him on speaker and makes me listen to what the guy has to say and it's really boring. Everytime the guy sms her, she makes me help her to reply. This is indeed very weird.
That is why I have decided to talk to her about it. To marry her is easy, but then, to support her is not going to be that easy. I have since taken up giving tuition to ramp up my earnings. Hopefully I can earn 1K more per month from now.
I tried to finish the relationship with her once but she cried so much that my heart went soft again. I've not given her alot of money (around $3000), and she had seen my parents already. We always spend the night at my place now, cutting down on the expensive overnight hotel trips. Hopefully she can take what I'm going to tell her, cause the last time we had a conversation like that, it caused her alot of stress. So much that she grinds her teeth at night when she sleeps.
I can forget her past and her present job disturbs me. Been causing me alot of stress too. She's not perfect, but she is indeed good to me. Thanks for reading!
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Hey bro Joob!
Your post has captured my attention simply because I've found myself in a pretty much exact situation as yours.
Basically, I've been seeing this pretty mid-20 Vietnamese working girl for a few good months. She works at the Brix bar at the Hyatt hotel. Just as with your girl, mine also declares her unconditional "love" for me. She would talk about future marriage, family, children, and she would show her anger, jealousy to prove her love to me. When she's with me, she would also put her client's calls on loud speaker and allows me to listen to their conversations. I'm suspicious this is just a method to build false trust. And, last but not least, she would also always ask for money from me after each love session.
I'm not sure if this is their trick to fool us "customers" to remain faithful to them. What I fear most is this is the way the want to win over our heart and mind, in order to, swindle bigger sums of money as we become more and more indulged in our lustful activity with them and more committed to a future with them.
I'm very confused. I very much hope that by having a dialogue with you I can clear up this huge dilemma I'm struggling with.
Do reply when you have time!
Take care bro!
Dave