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Originally Posted by casannova03
Actually, i had a chat with my wife some time ago about vietnamese gals. the question i asked her was.."Are vietnamese gals who chose to work as WLs different from normal vietnamese gals?" well, as expected , we had a long discussion from this question..
To my wife, there is only 2 types of VN gals - the good ones and the bad ones.
She dun see Vn gals as WL or non WL. For she sees the difference being a choice in jobs. And to add on, no Vn gals chose to be WLs as a career(life-long). Therefore there is no case to comment on a VN gal who has once or sometime in her life chosen to go the path of a WL. Instead the discussion should be on good Vn gals vs bad Vn gals.
Her argument is if the Vn gal is someone who belongs to the good category, she may have chosen to be a WL but ultimately that is short term solution to their short-term problem and more often than not, in their heart, they are still good vn gals.
On the other hand, the bad Vn gals will still be bad even if they did not work as Wls. These bad vn gals who are not WLs may be using the same tricks on guys they know at pubs, discos etc. They have the same motive as bad Vn gals who chose to work as WLs. Maybe only in name, they seemed more 'high class'. Thats about the difference.
During her times, when she was still working as a Wl, it was easy to know who were the 'suckers' of man. At that time, their community was small and news spread fast in their network, never mind that they are working in different places. Most of these 'suckers' usually are gals who came here to work because they want more money for themselves and their own desires of life. No underlying reasons such as family needs etc. And often, they belong to the gambling group who will spend more time at some places gambling than at pubs working. you normally only see them at work religiously like gals who needs the money, when they have a bad streak at the gambling sessions and needs nore money.
So during her time, things were not that complicated. However she did admit that some Singapore guys are real carrots! Super real carrots! They would offer to bring them shopping at expensive places like Taka and Paragon....without the gals asking...so if they meet with the good gals who normally dun know what Gucci are, then they are lucky for they may get away with just one or two purcahses..... but if they meet with one of these 'suckers', who's to be blame when these gals change Gucci bags like changing underwear?
Now, she thinks most Viet Wls will resort to KC-ing and getting more money because:
1.)things in Vietnam is getting much much more expensive unlike during her working days.
2.)Viet Wls are everywhere now. It is a case of supply more than demand thus every gal will have to fight for a share of our chionging population.
3.)The ppl that bring or intro them the kang tao to work are getting more organised and taking more cuts.
4.) it is no longer a case of this month earn less go back two weeks come again. Now its harder to come here cos of tight immigration rules.
Therefore she thinks that men have to be really careful now cos money has become a bigger issue than 5 years ago for Wls. Even good gals need money now to cover house rentals, tickets, agent fees...
So to cut a long story short, You have to be careful when you are out there! i think i took a lot of short cuts in writing this post but i hope that i was able to bring my idea across..  |
HI Bro,
thanks for the post,,,from my own personal experience many moons ago, I was with my ex Vn gf and jalan in shopping centre and we wandered into a Taka jewellery,,she went to the 'discounted' section have a look than bought some costume jewellery for her family,,,and i told her to get one of nicer jewellery for herself,,and she said no, not nice..than I pointed to another discounted section which we missed and she chose a pendant,,for 30bucks,..i paid for her,...and she paid me back for the stuff for her family,,,and she was a HCMC gal..
Now just recently in my trip to hanoi,,,the few 'northern' gals that i dated, they seem quite conservative with $$...like they suggest the cheaper places to eat,,and eat in market, road side stall and we have tea by the road side too,,and it was the gals suggestions,,,I only suggest the expansive place,,and during Women's day, i was out with a gal and wanted to buy her flowers and she also rejected as saying its a waste of money,,so i bought her Kem (ice cream) from road side stall instead.
So about the 'carrot head' singaporeans,,maybe i am the luckier one who manage to date the more conservative gals...and my vn frens also say that a normal vn gal is like that,,very conservative with money,,good at bargaining wont anyhow buy things,,,that is why i am very attracted to Vn gals,,even though my previous relationships did not work out,,i am still quite game to get a good Vn gal..at least with this experience i have a clearer picture on the type of gal to look out for,,,
any bros have Vn gals lobang in Hanoi?