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Originally Posted by SingViet
Another typical vietnamese con job. This type of con job is very normal amongst the vietnamese ladies who have foreigner bf. For the last few years, i have got to know a few singaporean man who was conned by vietnamese gf who used the same tricks.
When i married my wife several years ago, she asked for US$6k from me to build a house in her province for her parents. But the marriage is not just that US$6k. After that, it took me a few years to trust my wife as i discovered that her mum took quite a fair share of the money i gave. its always a risk involved. after marrying my wife, i had the first 2 years filled with lots of argument, but i was determined to change that by bringing her to singapore. One of the most sickening thing that i cannot tahan of them is that even if my wife and i know that her relative has cheated us of money, we are not allowed to voice out our displeasure. I really hate this!! Kanna conned must still keep quiet?
After coming to singapore, my wife was exposed to many things and situations that she has never encountered before. I took the many opportunities to talk to her and explain to her. Thru time, my wife learnt a lot. At the same time, i also took the chance to convince her that her mother is not interested in her at all, just interested in her money. The thing that changed everything is when my wife is really convinced that her mum doesn't dote on my twin daughters at all. This made my wife really very disappointed. Nowadays, my wife will never ask me to send money to her parents. Its me that will request to send some pocket money to her parents.
brothers, don't only listen to your dickhead. Vietnamese ladies know that singaporean man are always easily led on by sex and sex is a very normal thing for the normal vietnamese lady. Sex will lead us on and make us part with our hard earned money. Don't be eager to commit totally. It will take time understand a person and the amount of time needed to understand a lady from a different country and culture is surely much more. Its always cheaper to buy sex than to get conned  |
Hi Bro Singviet,,
good job on you educating your wife,,at least now u are in a better situation now as your wife is now more supportive of u...I am also surprise about the earlier hard ships u face with your in laws,,,I asked my Vn frens( they are locals who are married) and Vn gal frens about what is expected from a guy,,,and they all same thing,,,must be family guy and able to support the family,,,the 'family' being the wife and kids,,,in laws dont come into consideration at all,,even a SOuth gal tell me that,,,
One of my Vn guy frens says that his in laws give him alot of support for him and his wife,,,and he is very greatful to them..so from what you have encountered,,,the people in VN like in all places have extremes,,,
And from the VN gals I dated,,they want to know if I am in a position to look after the family(in laws not counted),,its a common question ask by gals,,,and that is the minimum requirement,,,,so with my previous experiences,,i believe a good Vn gal will make a good wife,,,I dont see SPore gals being this 'nice'..spore gals are definately more demanding,,,