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Originally Posted by SingViet
Haven't sign the marriage papers and haven't stay together daily, don't say too early hor
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eehhh... trust got anything to do with staying together daily?
if stay apart already cannot trust, than what is the point of staying together and suffer every night?
That is why while we are apart, i still choose to trust her. My girlfriend is a homely person and really knows how to think and she act as big sister to her friends. The only thing is that she is too good that everyone wanna cheat her. (even myself as I have been fooling around in Sillypore)
I see that you do not trust your wife family maybe becoz of frequent money request in terms of thousands of UD$. I admire you that you are good that you can weave away so many requests. I got no money problem with her as she seldom ask from me. Even have, the amount is damn little. The most that I give at 1 time is S$1500. I have educated her that I am a poor guy. I can only provide for her but not her whole family. Drilled into her mind since day 1.
The only thing/person that may destroy this relationship is myself. Bro who knows me always say that I cannot live with only 1 gal. I have been flirting around and the rate is getting higher. Reason I give myself is that it is getting near to the date where I will not be 'free' anymore. I need to cheong as much as possible before the date comes. (probably a childish reason)
Afterall, I cheong so much and seeing so many gals, yet I still want to settle down 1 day. My galfriend is one who can be a wife.
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Originally Posted by ekemono
Agreed.
During the pak tall stage you get to see each other at most a few hours every day then you parted to be on your own back home is totally different from facing her also a few hours everyday but stay under the same roof.
Your mum's issue comes into picture, your budget for extra headcount for food, rice, toiletries, vege, PUB, all increase.
Not that money can solve everything, if your new wife and your mum abit different channel, then you will have to play a very sensitive and tactful role.
After a very stress work day..., meeting your love one for a beer outside carries an absolutely different meaning from going back home to your love one and reaching out for that beer in the fridge.
It is the same beer to a guy, but the gal are more concern of the purpose.
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I with my girlfriend for 2 years plus liao... still pak tall stage? No lah.
Now she also start to complain (just like sillypore gals) that she feels that I don't love her as much as before. I think that it is the man thing that when a relationship drags long, it become an obligation rather than having the 'sweet honey honey' kind of love.
Being a married guy before, I know what it takes to take care a family. $$$
Being tactful between mum and wife...I think I am not. I am being blunt in telling my mum that if she cannot get along with my future wife, I will move out. My girlfriend also tells me that she move out alone since 14yo and may not know how to please the elders but she is willing to try. The first step to it is that she learn chinese diligently in order to communicate with my mum.