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Old 27-04-2009, 12:23 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

thanks, bro SingViet.. my encountered continues.. hope bros can UP me...

.....with this extra-odinaary love encounter, ( the best is yet to be, followed by downs..)

infact, the words i always came across,
"absence make a heart grow fonder" best describe my feelings.

to date, i have never been separate so "far away" from my loves one,
most of my ex-gf were sgporean, even separate were one to two week of ICT trg no big deals.

for this viet gf, i have mix feelings, i went distance, to buy chat chat card, make daily calls, day, afternoon, and nites...w/o fail.

i cant believe myself, am i in love with her? i am still struggling ..am i dreaming?
how come i fall in love with a Viet WL (no offence to brothers who had VN gf/wife, apologized for being so skeptical)
all the questions come poping up....why, how, ..what..
i am in a dilemma..to be frank, i am touched when she left that day
i dont expect her to sms me on the day she left for VN
i could still recall vividly …recalling that early morning…
that was a monday morning. still in bed and out a sudden, my leg kena"cramp" and it send kinda "eletric-shock" to my body, for that my head to knock against my bedroom wall, i jump out of bed, and watch the clock 705am,so coincidently phone played "you got mail" ..
i grap my phone , and the sms was from her, it shows " joe, i am leaving, take care"
my heart pumps very fast, and i quickly dial her number worrying she shut her phone, coz the flight is 715am.
1st try …shit busy tone, die die must get thru. I was panicky,,,,
2nd attempt was successful, w/o any hesitation, i said loudly to her " i will miss you very much, I LOVE YOU". This is the first time I said the words “ I love you” to her…
she was touched, and she respond “我很感动” …my hearts melts…
<<was this the telepathetic path that I shared with her ?? first was the eletirc shock and then came the sms…somehow I felt that we were emotionally /virtually – attached to each other..>>

have been leading 3 good years of singlehood, I had never re-open my heart all these years, even though there are some girls(non-WL) that came across.
for this viet girl really touches my heart, she is the key to “re-open” my heart “心琐”.

Same Monday morning, 1030am….,my phone rings , number appearing +84xxxxxxxxxxx, it was her , I answered, she said “I have reach HCMC…I miss you in while the plane and was so cold”. My hearts melt further..
I told her, I miss you too…blah blah, we chatted for abt ten minutes before I come to senses, that I have a meeting coming up. I told her take care …


Ok back to the main…
Two days later, still trying to straighten my thoughts…
I finally have the courage to book the air tickets online on the 3rd day ….
Why I make the choice,
1) I miss her, find my true love…
2) Want see how her home condition
3) First trip to HCMC, make it as eye opener
4) Got long time ICT pal running business there, so as to explore the possibility to invest in his biz.

Yoyo..guys , its late, tmr gota work,,,
To be continue,…