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Originally Posted by dummydummy
Hi all, a year ago I met a ex school mate and I have no feeling on her when I saw her that time. Since then, she will constantly sms and invite me for any outing. I will just entertain her when I am bored at that time. But suddenly in February I have feeling for her, I confessed to her and got rejected....................But she always emerge in my mind, and I will automatically contact her every time although being scold, cold treat, and verbally harass by her even in front of my own friend. And in my view, she is not beautiful as all!
Can any brother here please provide me some view whether I have been poisoned by any black magic of her or any other people? Did I being curse with the so called love “kong tao”? .................................................. ...................She is the one who come into and disturb my life at first, and now I have fallen to her trap and cannot get out. Pls help!!
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Hi bro,
No, you're not dumb n u didn't kena Gong Tao, despite what some uninformed people may think.
You hv fallen in love w/ her! Falling in love is not a choice. One can't choose whom one should/could or would fall in love w/. It occurs at the subconscious level, beyond the control of ur higher brain, the neocortex.
Consciously, u dun find her attractive or desirable at all. I believe she has, tru her interactions w/ u, triggered some neuro mechanisms in the primitive areas of ur brain n u are falling for her. It occurs at the subconscious level n u cant help it!! This trigger probably occurred in Feb. In fact, she is also very puzzled n frightened by ur sudden affection for her n she is running away from u.
What should u do? Stop all ctc w/ her!! Try meditation, mind reprogramming n /or NLP exercises. You could google them n go from there.
Good luck!!