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Originally Posted by SingViet
...... If starting give her a lot of money, then next time she will have a lot of request to ask for much more. I don't believe in setting the trend for giving money. That's why my mother-in-law doesn't like me and i don't like her too......
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Agreed!! You dun want to start off on the wrong foot and set an extremely high precedent for yourself in you relationship with your in laws.
You may think that they will regard you highly if you give a lot more money...but the truth is they will expect more highly from you instead!!
Its the same with your relationship with Vn gals. i find that many a times, people start off on the wrong foot. They tend to think that by giving your gal more money, they will like you more. In a way, that's true cos which gal dun like man who gave them the impression that he is well-to-do? But at the end of the day, if it's a relationship built solely on money, then you'll find that when you are not able to "contribute" then it's bye bye time.
Never think that you could be their "knight in shining armour" unless you have the wealth of a prince.