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Originally Posted by KangTuo
My galfriend knowing that I am not able to legally marry her now, she asked me to have a customary wedding first as to fulfill her old parents wish. She wanted it by this year, but I told her my situation (kept from her for 3 years liao), so we agree to hold it in early 2010.
No need to have a resturant wedding in HCMC or her home town, Mekong. She request just to go through a customary and have a lunch in her house at Mekong. Cooking by family only.
She say she can wait for me to settle my divorce (3 or 4 years seperation) before legalizing the marriage with her.
What esle can i ask for, I have to agree to her proposal.  and  |
All these issues pop up last week. Really had a dramatic week.
1) trying to settle divorce with my wife after 3 years.... but seems not fruitful. Alot T&C from her.
2) Recently got a gal who agree to be number 2 gal as she knows I got a 3years galfriend in VN. Number 2 just came back to sillypore. Thought that she is ok to be number 2 till I marry my galfriend. But she is pushing to be number 1 and only. Last week while I am with her out till very late, my galfriend called and I just pick up and talk to my galfriend infront of her. Number 2 started talking to let my galfriend know that I am with her. On hearing a women voice, my galfriend started crying and wanted me to go home. Probably i also fall too deep into the number 2 KC trap, I wanted a breakoff with my current galfriend.
Somehow our love is so strong that after calling for a break, quite immediately we feel that we cannot lose each other. I called her and talked very long... including the topic on marriage. I would say that it is true love that broght us back.
1 phrase I will always remember her saying:
"everytime you say you go out drink coffee with friends, I know you just don't want me to know you go out to play and hug gals. I kept quiet and tell you to call me when you reach home.This is because I love you so I got to bare the pain. BUT WHY THIS TIME YOU LET ME LISTEN TO A GAL SPEAKING OVER THE PHONE? IT IS REALLY HURTING"
My heart totally dropped... I disappointed her.
Partly happy that I got myself a good galfriend, a wifey material. Partly sad that I cannot prolong my cheonging dayz any longer.
3) Although number 2 says she she can leave in order to fulfill me and my galfriend wish. I still find it hard to break with her and I try to convince her to stay and keep everything as status quo. But it seems difficult to do so liao...
The KC trap I stepped in is too deep... she is the best gal on bed that I ever had and I wanted very much to keep her as my own only. Letting her go is also painful... unless I can find 1 better than her