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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
Think you dun understand vn gal culture enough to marry them...alot had been discussed in this thread...if you let your vn wife run your life then you will have a very tiring experience...better start brain wash them before too late...from your post it seems that you are not staying together yet...good luck...  |
I agree with Bro Hurricane88. You have to run your life yourself and you also have to run your vn spouse's life. One thing that i know i will never do is to let my wife run the finances. When i first got married with my wife, she requested to run the finances. I refused. I know if she runs the finances, we will always be broke and even be in huge debt as her family will try all ways to suck every penny from us. Husband of vietnamese spouses need to be the stronger and decisive party as most of the vietnamese spouses are not highly educated and thus lack knowledge in most areas and to make things worse, the pressure from their family. treat your viet spouse well and she will treat you even better. Communicate and explain to her your difficulties and discuss on how both of you can work towards a better tomorrow.
