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Originally Posted by serioussillyguy
Tks KLbros,
But what u mentioned is very true.those things happened very very common for viet. i think all is about lack of family teaching since the way they r brought up in that poor viet land.
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I have a different view. To my mind they are taught about money, fun, great life, TV - I cannot count how many believe the Hollywood movies to be true to real life
-, and 'saving the face'. Their whole life is driven by 'saving their face' and 'saving their family face'.
It is a special permit to do everything, even the most disgusting, at the sole mandatory condition that no one can prove it and that their face is kept clean in public therefore. They learn how to do, and they do it successfully. That's it.
Another note that I know first and second hand, another trick from women who want to break or divorce is to make a complete sexual strike, beat, scream, avoid their husband to sleep, etc... Because the husband still has hope, or has child, he tries to stand of that, ends up with a girlfriend, and that's exactly what his wife was waiting for. Scream, shout, police, mess, and she can divorce of that dirty foreigner. Be very careful if you are married, never take a girlfriend until you are divorced, take clear sharp decision for the divorce, never try to wait to see later, or you are done nicely sooner or later.