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Originally Posted by X_plorer
Anyone out there help me? I'm married with a viet gal, and my baby is 2 years old already.. Recently kena involved with another Viet gal from JC, dun know wht the heck and how i involve with her.
I went down to JC with my friend (i reach there 1st). I reject most of the gals which come over to my table as a bit sian, dun feel like cuddling 1.. But after 1 hour plus later, while still waiting for him.. Finally get 1 gal.. So, as per normal sop... She look also quite normal only. In fact her sister is quite a looker but didn't come over but her instead. So just grab lor, after my friend reach already. We hang around for a short while then i went off already because have to pick up my wife..
We exchange numbers only.. Nothing much happens in the pub, only for some kissing and hugging.
The next day, decided to give her a call and ask her out.. She ask her another sis to come along also. We we went for a meal together and went to some places for some beautiful views of Singapore, then i send them back.. Her sis went back but she follows me.. Then thats how my rendevous affair starts.. I did not finish her that day but only countless times of meeting up, around near 2 months later.. I also do not know how liao.. After she went back, she keeps calling me, now she is back in Singapore.. She also keeps calling me, tmr is her birthday, which i dun remember, it's her who sms me that then asking me whether i coming or not.. Because I've been avoiding her after 2 meeting with her after her 2nd visit.. Actually i wanted to adopt the fuck and forget method which i use every time.. But she really wants to capture me like her husband, at the start when i know her, i already told her that I'm married with kids, but she says she dun mind..
And the most headache thing is here.. She is not taking a single cent from me except the first day.. That is the most headache 1.. By adopting the fuck and forget method.. The most important is pay and fuck.. But........ Haiz.. This one really makes me headache.. If anyone ask me, her character and her overall surpass my wife.. But I'm married, i cannot say wants to change partner just because another gal is better a bit, then i divorce and change. I still have to think for my baby... There is a commitment and responsibility to my family.. Having an affair outside must also know must go home...
Anyone can advise on my situation?
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Bro, 1st, asks yourself wat the reasons for hanging out at jc those pub? if the reasons mainly becos biz entertainment, or relaxing yourself or once a while pampering yourself, is fine,drink,hug,kiss,bonk then payup n go home.
The above is providing ur current wife and u having a happily relationship.
If u n ur wife not on good terms, i thus see the reasons u want find another gal at present. accordingly to ur story, u shld be on good terms w ur wife somemore having a cute baby gal.
Personally i just feels that the viet gal just mainly invest on u as future financial supporter when she's in n out of singapore, of cos to her, the best thing if u could be muddlehead enough to divorce your wife for her.In this kind place, gals in relationship with customers and providing countless foc bonking to their so-called ong xa or bf do not really means the gals love the guy.investment came in long term or short term.
If u just want to have fun,u shld not go into relationship in the 1st place. Just think wat's gd deals she can get from u by remain as second, nothing much and when she has enough she will force u to divorce your wife,think abt ur kid? and ur wife will cut off your dick(i heard viet gals quite like to do this to their unfaithful hubby) Now if u r certain u got no problems with ur wife. Do cut off all contacts w this gal n returns to ur wife.(of cos, as a man, is alrite to go flirting n clean up nicely before u went home, do not becos of foc bonking, creates a big problems to yr family..becos u r a family man)