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Originally Posted by haojian
Got married this year to a vietnamese. now shes pregnant, expecting our baby next year. her mum will be coming over to look after for her 1st month.
she have a friend that brought her mum-in-law to stay and look after his baby of 3 months old, while his wife goes to work.
now she asking me to do the same for her mum 
she wants to work so that she can send money home to fix the house, and to buy land for her parents. after that she can take it easy as she don't have to worry about her parents livelihood.
currently i am sending some money to her parents to help them once every few months. |
My own experience is, you have to read your wife's character. Is she the type who is grateful, or ungrateful?
If she is grateful, go for it - help her. You'll never know, the good things will come when it is your turn in need.
And being in marriage means togetherness, isn't it. Her parents are also your parents. If you adopt that attitude, your in-laws will love you and your marriage will be on even more solid grounds.
Trust me - I always tell my V wife we put her parents' interest on par with the interests of my parents. Equal. She is convinced and we'll last together.