dear DavidTOH
maybe you're the same person i know... 4years diff bed, 7 year old daughter.
RECONCILE. There are ways to spice up your love life and rekindle the love again - If You Want To.
My friend's problem is VERY similar to yours but he says He has tried all means, and its his wife thats sort of rejecting him. I recalled her mentioned one time that She asked for a massage down her back and he took 5mins of it, massaged and walked out of room.
To me, THAT was a clear signal that we 'wants' it. If i was him, I would have given her a proper massage down her back to her waist, and bum.. the rest you have to imagine yourself
