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one WARNING to share with all the guys here... and this is VERY IMPORTANT cos it happened to my friend's brother.

when he was in the process of divorcing his wife, the understanding was that she will not ask for ANY money, but suddenly her lawyer asked if he is ok to pay alimmony of just $1 a month as maintanence. As like most men who want to be gentlemanly, he did not say no, and happily agreed to it. ONLY $12 what!?!?

That was before he became successful in his trading business. Then he got letters from her lawyers 9 months after the divorced was finalized asking for 10% of his income from his business. Of course he bay-dik, go court and challenged.

In the end, the bit*h won cos her lawyer argued that when he gave her that $1, it signalled his intention to give more but at that time he was broke (got laid off, no income), so they did not ask for more. Now that he is 'rich' he should give her more money... and guess what, the court ruled in her favor.

Now he so damned pissed but cannot do anything about it. I am not kidding you. He says his income from business is about $28000 a month and then he suddenly got to give a monthly cheque of $2,800 (at least) to her for NOTHING, and it is because of that stupid $1

If you do not intent to give your soon-to-be-ex-wife any money make sure you dont give at all. Then cut all relations, change mobile, address, etc and make sure ex-wife dont get in on any information as to how you are doing...

please let your guy friends know about this trick the woman's lawyer will use to get back to you later when you made it. i am very serious about this.

if you or anyone is gonna get divorced, feel free to PM me. I am not a lawyer but I have seen at least 5 divorces and learnt alot from what they been through. There are just some things EVEN your lawyers wont (or couldnt) tell you one. Trust me.