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Originally Posted by NewMike1304k
Be it wife or GF, the big problem is not finding the truth and so on, but the fact that you feel betrayed and you feel lousy and to break off will just make you feel even worse. But in the end, ask yourself this question, why did it come to this stage and where you want to bring it to?
The reason is because perhaps she is not fully at fault. Maybe she is weak and feels good when someone chats her up and makes her feel wanted... If that is the case, then perhaps you can do better. Perhaps you got together too young and she wants to know who else is out there.... But no matter what, no problem is insurmountable. Then once you know the past, you already know the present, you can decide the future. Can you accept the fact that she has been with another guy? Then if you can, then forgive and forget. If you cannot, then forget it and just move on. Always remember one thing though, something once broken can be mended, but it will never be the same again.
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Very well said bro, I concurr totally.
Do not look out for only by looking in, would you find the root and cause for this straying behavior.