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Originally Posted by dodgyboi69
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I just want to know how to identify between a good seed or a bad seed. J just don want to waste my time and effort into a lady only to find out that she is a bad seed!
Personally, I think she's a gem.
The only thing that bothers me is that she doesn't really reply to my Random "how are you? I miss you" SMS.
She will take about a day to do that.
She'll SMS me like once in every 3 or 4 days.
I was thinking that maybe it's expensive for her to SMS me every night since she only earns like 3 to 4 mil VND a month and still have to support family.
Should I invest time and effort in her?
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I think you need to start off with mutual respect to begin with. If the girl is stereotyped as a WL, then a longterm relationship is a non-starter, as she will always be seen as such and treated as such. I made a mistake once on a very sweet young lady, and suddenly realized how wrong I was, and indeed made up to her later. Although we remain good friends, I am never sure if the episode is ever erased from her mind, even that it wasn't that serious.
Tel comms Sgp-VN is very expensive both ways. Singtel charges S$1.15 (VND16k) per min. It adds up very quickly. 10mins=S$11.15. Even sms's from here are: S$0.60(VND$8k) a pop. It adds up very quickly. I think it is even more ex in VM for them to make overseas calls and sms s. If u figured that you can get a good Pho lunch for one minute's talktime, phone calls are a luxury item. My friend has email, so it helps alot. I also leave her some budget money to top up her card and she responses once a day. I usually call her instead of getting her to call me or sms back.
If you want a successful longterm relationship. Establish the friendship first. You can then figure out the compatibility for a longterm partnership, if not compatible, you can still remain friends. Its not about Fxxk&Forget anymore.
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Originally Posted by haha_123
...During my last visit to HCMC, another girl called me on my mobile while I was having dinner with my bx. My bx immediately grabbed my phone and told the other gal to stop calling me again. After that event, my bx will always check my handphone for messages and calls. She even hold on to my phone so that when my phone rings, she'll be the first one to pick up and to know the caller is a boy or girl. I must say that I felt a little proud that my bx cling on to me so tightly like she's afraid that she'll lose me to other girls. It also made me very reluctant to 'steal eat' ala Uncle Jack.  
She even told me that she have many spies in HCMC and told me specifically not to try anything funny behind her back...  |
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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
...dun quite agree with you that taking charge of your handphone is good...this means mis-trust...think you need to work harder... |
Hahaha.... it is true that VBs are very possesive. I agree with Bro Hurricane, this can be a major problem and create serious misunderstandings. On one hand, its a cultural thing, so she will not understand that you need your own space and that she needs to respect that. You need to work on some training and orientation. But, if she is psychopathic about it, then it is not a Viet problem. Its a serious human problem that also exist in alot of Sgp girls. So watch out and be sure to manage properly.
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Originally Posted by KangTuo
why they find someone like me then its worth the trip? Khong hieu..
I believe you should saying find someone like VK... the CASH KING.
I xao nhieu nhieu...
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Hahaha... many of these JC girls also come in search of love. Unfortunately, they are not quite doing it the right way,but there really is not much choice for them. Most of the time the boys go to JC in search of lust. Occasionally the VBs get lucky and they find someone like some of our kinder bros.