Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
Hi guys..
I just got back from hcm a couple of days back.. It was a bittersweet trip.. I broke off with my vn girl.. Found out that her first love is back into her life! She likes both of us and I think she's weighing both of us.. It's painful cos she's a nice girl and all.. I noticed that she acted kind of strangely with me.. Not like when I was there on my last trip.. I just shrug it off.. Her friends then informed me about the first love after I kept asking them bout her.. I lost it man! I left my ego back in sg but it landed! They told me that she also like me but when I asked who she like more, all of them said she likes the first love more! They told me that in vn, all first love overwrites everything! WTF!!! so I confronted her! She denied! She then said that we should be friends instead cos it was too fast between us! And she wants to start slow and she like me! I told her NO! cos it's too painful! She left and cried! Now I feel like shit! Am I doin the right thing? Or should j just battle it out with the first love and may the best man win? And what's up with the first love thingy?
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