Hi guys... i just got married with my viet wife recently and now i encounter some problems which i would like to hear some pointers from bros in here...
my wife just went back to vietnam to see her family in her village..she said she wan to wear the golds which were given to her from the marriage... i told her don wear la cos go back to village wearing so much gold dangerous mah... later people snatch the golds ok nvm...wat if the robber use knife to stab how? den she lan lan never wear to vietnam... Now when we talk thru the phone earlier on she say her father not happy why she never wear gold go back...saying that like that the neighbours see liao like no face like that..and her father even questioned her whether i really love her or not... if love her y never let her wear the gold back... scared she run away isit...wa lao eh...never let her wear gold means don love her? and now my wife is upset over this... i mean...wat the hell is this..? wat is it with wearing gold? wear gold liao got alot of face meh..? is it more important to have face or safety more important? and now the father is getting more and more money minded...keep on talking abt money...wtf...
bros can give me some advices and pointers? feeling damn vexed...