[Rejuvenation]

Thanks to all bros for the inputs and advices, i never take it out on my wife cos i understand that she is stuck in the middle, she also understand my financial ability and always help me to explain to her father abt this...i just find it very difficult to let her family understand that i'm not some rich man who can afford everything in the world and that i'm just another nobody striving to make ends meet in a country which seems high class to other people in the world...

bro kangtao... i think being bf and gf is totally different from getting married...last time b4 we got married, the father say don need anything, no money also nvm...just trully love her daughter and take good care of her can liao... now get married liao den start asking for this and that liao...maybe thats y the family keep asking "when will u marry their daughter?"... so that when got married liao den they can officially take out their vietnam parang to chop ur head...now still shy to ask for things...cos scared chased away potential "gold mountain"...maybe u should clarify things properly with her 1st...