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Originally Posted by jf66312
we did manage to get married last year even though my parents did not approve.. my parents were upset as they felt it was too rush & my dad was also in the midst of matchmaking for me...
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How long have you know her before you decided to marry her?
Show to your parents that you love her and at the same time you show love to your parents too , and also can manage your famiy business.
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well..of cse i did not tell them where i met her..just told them knew her through a frend...
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Well, for my case, I told my mum where I know my wife and what she do and why she come here work?
Communications is important !
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Originally Posted by jf66312
now she is pregnant & my parents told me its my choice & i should live with it & they hope she turns out to be good...
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Well, at least your parents still give their blessings to you .... back to that , COMMUNICATIONS is very important!
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but i can still feel their reservations abt her...
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Your parents is not the only one in Singapore that do have reservations .... about foreign bride ....
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when i knew her , i was working for my dad but i left when they objected to my marriage as my dad was so upset that he said he would not support...
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SO this could be the reason why they still have reservations ....
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but now things getting bit better..i am back in his company helping him out but me & my wife are not living with my parents at the moment...
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No worries , like I said , COMMUNICATIONS is very important part of building relationships... remember you are the link bridge .... Your BX is important and need to be happy, so does your parents ....