Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
dear bro xgrubx,
think most bros here have given their advice & open up your eyes to certain things that are blinding u at the moment because you are "in love" or "infatuated"..it is still too early to tell...
there are some things that you need to decide for yourself & weigh your options...
1) are u able to provide her for her needs?
2)if u are not able to provide her for her needs & she needs to work in KTV , are you able to take it? bear in mind the mental torture that you have to go thru.
3)she is very young at the age of 18...i believe she would want to enjoy life.based on your brief description of her , seems like she enjoys partying..are u sure she is able to settle down?
4) you are in Singapore while she is in VN , its long distance , u would not have control & knowledge of what she is doing. are you able to take it?
bro , by asking yourself these questions , i believe you should have an answer..
Your only chance of being with her is IF YOU ARE ABLE TO 感动 her with your sincerity..
but bear in mind , she is young & i believe her mind is not strong enough to withstand the worldy temptations...
so my advice is the same as most bros here, if you have a better choice, just leave her...there are too many uncertainties if you want to carry on with her...
hope you are able to decide what is best for you.. i believe all sbf bros here will help , support & give you advice...
cheers
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