Giving my 2 cents worth, as someone who took the plunge and is about to marry a Vietnam lady.
First of all, she is not a WL and has never been to Singapore. Despite that, the initial period was very bad, as I would constantly be torn between is she lying to me, or is she sincere?
Bro, at the end of the day, i likened this situation to a war:
There are always 2 sides in a War. Side A and Side B. Side A = Trust her 100%, she is sincere and Side B = She is fake. Like a real war, you need to choose a side - you cannot stand in the middle and be a 2 headed snake (Aka trust her 50%, doubt her 50%)
Pick your side, and never look back. For me, I choose Side A and never again did i doubt her.
Bro, at the end of the day, only YOU will know how she treats you, what she told you, the way she strokes your hair while telling I love you. We cannot be the judge. However, my advice is if you decide to trust her 100%, you must be prepared to lose everything.
For example: if you commit 10k to her (marriage etc) and you decide to trust her 100%, be prepared to lose this 10k.
Anyway, good luck to you
