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Originally Posted by SirDennis
Do any people here have PH maids as their proper gf?
But I just CAN'T bring myself to fake smiling and pretend to like them just to get in their pants, cuz it'll hurt them- my conscience won't let me. In fact, it's the same for any girl- If I dont like her, I wont fake a relationship with her.
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Yes. I have witnessed 2 local guys being with their pinay maid for years.
What you just mentioned here about the conscience thingy happened to me just a day ago on Hari Raya.
The good Samaritan (this is not a FR, only story-telling)
I came to know this pinay who was a mixed blood but I won't say what kind of mixed, just in case the bf is reading this. She doesn't look like a pinay and doesn't behave like a typical pinay maid so naturally I was comfortable with her. But I didn't intend to do anything to her.
One fine Sunday I was getting bored at Bugis area (wife & kids still oversea) and out of the sudden received an sms from her. She had a quarrel with her bf and apparently the guy must have been blowing his top off and left her.
She asked if we can meet. Well, better than being alone, i agreed and met her at Orchard area. She looks even better in person and can hold herself up in a very feminine way. I waited for her to run some errand and then brought her to one of the joints at Orchard tower. Fortunately the joint has only a few Bangala inside. we chatted cheerfully over beer and she started to touched me in the hands and lap. I knew what it meant but responded only modestly by holding hands. I wasn't sexually attracted to her, but i enjoy being with her.
So, the story goes that her bf is a local guy and doing very well in his work, and rich. Care for her all the time but has a problem that was incurable; a control freak. She says she loves him but was getting tired of his behavior.
So, down with another round of beer then sent her home.
After that, the next day she asked for my current photo cos she says I was cute ( ehhhh
) and then the daily good morning, good afternoon and good nite dear sms poured in.
Comes Hara Raya eve, she sms me that she is on off for the holiday and wish to meet me. Ok, like i said, i enjoy being with her.
Met her after she is done with her friends in the afternoon. She told bf some bullshit about birthday celebration for gals only.
So after a while sat down at Starbuck for a chat over coffee and I dig into more of her bf stories with her. In summary, she loves him (but yet dating me har..) and he is always proving that he is ready to be her good husband. But she was too concern over his control freak attitude and hinted that she is looking out for a better option. She ask me if I like her.
I told myself this is a piece of meat cooked and ready on my plate. Coupled with her low cut blouse that revealed her fair white cleavage, my mind went dirty. And yes, why are those pinay so clever? Every time when the 1st bonk may take place during the meet up, they will wear something more sexy to encourage the guys.
So, I told her we still have a good 3 hours to go and as we are tired from walking and the weather was warm, I said I wanna bring her to a nice and quiet place, with air-con. She responded "I dun mind".
She knew where we are going.
We strolled and held hands to Bencoolen 81. Along the way chatted and more was revealed about her bf and soon after we reached the place.
I felt very guilty to do this to her. My conscience could not let me do this.
I mean, hell..., this guy is so into her and ready to marry her. But if I fuck her and if in any way, cause her relationship with him to be history, i can't be the replacement cos I am already married.
As I had got her to wait at the lift area exist, I did not ask for room but just ask the overnight rate. I was already standing in front of the receptionist and I would look silly if I just walk off. I returned to the pinay and told her all rooms taken. She had waited for me to suggest another place but i gave excuse that other hotel are quite far away. I told her lets take this things naturally as it comes and tried to dispel away the mood by suggesting going to Plaza Singapura as I need to pick up some things there. I didn't wanna tell her I do not want to go hotel with her cos it may embarrass her.
Shopped, ate Mac Donald and sent her home. She then took a picture of her cleavage and mms me. Shit!
So the "beer ghost" (me) down a cold mug of Heineken and gather up my courage and called her. (so you see.., beer is actually a good thing
)
I told her I was feeling very good being with her but felt that it was better if she had sorted out her matters with her bf before anything else can happen.
But common sense being. How much risk can a gal takes to dump her 3 years long rich, caring bf for a guy she just dated for two outing? And a poor bloke? i dun know how much of those bullshit she took but she acted calm and sensible. Well she have to.
A good Samaritan? Hmmm.., maybe too fanciful a word. But never regretted this decision.
Thanks for reading my crap