[dearboys77]

Hi all, i ve been dating my VN gal for 1 year liao been visiting her about 6 to 10 times and her coming to spore 3 to 4 times also after seeing tis thread and reading so much abt ppl concern abt their Vn gal i totally ve to agree with many points being memtion here

maybe i consider lucky lol, her dad pass away in usa and her mum and youngest sis stayed there left her and her elder brother to fend for themselves in HCM.Somemore i 33 and she 29 she no longer those syt always daydreaming abt hooking on to some rich turtle who can provide for them lol.

Her elder brother already married ve a family so she only ve to look after herself. The point is tat when u get a VN gal-friend and they keep asking money from u i dun really blame them lol, lets look at normal jobs for low education factory work 12hrs shift 5 days work total to 300 to 400 sing dollars even same for waitress and servers and at some place the outlets only provide u meals and basic pay ur major pay must come from tips from customers lol.

So for many young VN gals they wouldnt want to earn their money so hard lol unless u want ur gal to work as FL or places like cafe Oem ( cafe tat sell drinks and got gals company u can touch touch kiss kiss lol)

When u first know ur gal did u do ur part to let her understand ur finacial status ?

U r juz the same as everyone ur money is hard earn or did u always act big shot in front of her? If yes dun blame her always trying to squeeze some money out from u with alot of stupid lame excuses lol

Of course if u r really serious abt tis relationship u really need to make an effort to go VN and understand her family and lifestyle. Expample my gal she work since young age from waitress and supervisor at factory own a coffeshop at a point of time sell it for treatment for dad who work in usa at tat point of time and to jobs like supervising labours to renovate houses tat she secure the renovation from friends and recommandation. she earns the leftover commission after she paid the workers .And mind she sometimes had to work 10 to 12 hrs to look after those workers see if they do a good job during those rushing for time contract. How i know from times i visit i didnt not juz go relax and play i make it apoint to really find out wats she doing and i company her as well and of course there r times tat bad she cant find jobs and to ask me for some money to tight her over but only ranging 100 to 200 for abt 2 times in tis 1 year.

What i am trying to say is tat did u do your part to sercure tis relation? Are u acting the superior role above her in terms of money and status?

Just my 2 cents worth